We encounter challenges daily and try to overcome them, that's part of our normal life. Sometimes, though, problems can seem insurmountable; there's no easy solution and we may feel stressed and not know what to do. In reality, there's always an answer. It may not be one that we like, but that's not the point.
I don't want to make that sound easy; the answer may be to reject a solution because it's unpalatable; but at least we should consider it and react. Procrastination doesn't help anyone and its best to deal with a problem in whichever way possible. Life's too short to dwell on things and hope the problem will disappear. Make a decision, accept it and move on.
There are those who accept their fate and those who challenge it. Who knows what's right? What I'd suggest is that if you don't like the path your life is taking, look for an alternative route. Some people won't change and just moan about what could have been. Others challenge everything and try to make a better life. Which one would you prefer to be?
That plant on the wall probably wouldn't have chosen to grow there. It could have had an easier life on the ground amongst other plants and with a ready supply of water. I don't know whether plants communicate, but this one was alone! A seed had found its way into a nook in the wall, taken hold and started to grow. Somehow, it not only survived, but grew into a pretty plant. If it could talk, it would, no doubt, have told me that it hadn't chosen to be there, that it was fate - but hadn't it done well! We could learn from that plant and follow its example. Anything is possible.